Offerings | Spanktherapy

OFFERINGS

My work and interests over the course of my life has led me to feel comfortable in offering a variety of different types of spanking and discipline. Sessions with me are generally either therapeutic or disciplinary in nature. I do not offer erotic spankings nor do I agree to role play situations - like cop and criminal, nosy neighbour etc. However, my life as a mother, my years as a high school teacher and my love of massage means I do feel comfortable giving out therapeutic and punishment spankings.

THERAPEUTIC SPANKING

This type of spanking is given for various reasons.

as stress relief
to encourage emotional release
to feel grounded
to feel 'corrected'
to enjoy the feeling of subspace

Think massage appointment with the 'contact' being primarily on your buttocks and possibly thighs and the intensity going from warm up to more intense as the session progresses. Some clients like to keep the intensity to mild increasing to moderate and never reaching 'hard'. Butt I find that most people are surprised by how much they can take with such a long warm up.

Emotional release is when the spankee cries at some point during their spanking. The tears are not usually brought on by any physical pain but because of emotional reasons, sadness, happiness, known or unknown. The tears come from deep down. It is up to them if they want to continue once the tears start to flow. We will have spoken about this prior to their spanking. Some clients have reported that being able to cry meant they were able to 'move on', or start addressing their current personal issues.

Only the spankee can decide for themselves if getting a spanking is therapeutic for them. Spanking is not a 'one-stop-cure-all' by any means, but it is a tried and tested way, at least for many spankos, of dealing with a number of situations that life can throw at them.

Quite often I will put on some chill, instrumental music to listen to while the spanking is going on. The music aids the person getting spanked to find themselves in subspace.

PUNISHMENT SPANKING

A punishment spanking, a discipline spanking, corporal punishment, a judicial caning are all similar in so far as the person on the receiving end is there in order to be punished for something they have done. They come to me for one of these types of spankings in order to

deal with feelings of guilt
be made to feel accountable for their actions
be punished once and for all for their wrong doings

They want to suffer, physically, by being spanked or caned so that they feel they have been 'dealt with accordingly'. Their transgression(s) may have occurred many years ago, perhaps in their adolescent years and they have carried feelings of guilt with them for many years and finally know that it is time to face up to it. Maybe they feel that a recent poor choice or behaviour is bad enough that they need to be penalized swiftly after it has happened.

I do not have control issues, I am not seeking any kind of personal relationship with my client. It is not sexual and I offer complete discretion. I can be trusted to listen to my clients' worries and concerns about their transgressions and to not judge them but at the same time with the help of the chosen punishment they can get past it.

It is 100% their job to do the necessary brain work to forgive themselves of their wrong doing, to be rid of any guilt they may have. I am not in the business of forgiving people, I'm not a priest sitting in a confessional box, but I am an open minded human who can empathize with people and I'm not afraid to inflict the necessary pain needed in the situation.

MAINTENANCE SPANKING

This is the type of spanking I would like to get every few weeks. They keep me grounded and help me operate at my prime... they maintain me! A maintenance spanking lies somewhere between a disciplinary and therapeutic spanking. A nice little warm up, then harder spanks are introduced fairly quickly. Sometimes its short and sweet other times, depending on how I'm feeling, it goes on much longer.. like 40, 50, 60 minutes!

'Just Because!' spankings... are exactly that. "Imma gonna get me a spanking cos, ya know, just because I want one!" No reason, no expectations just a spanking!

LONG DISTANCE SESSIONS

Writing lines, corner time, self spanking instructions ..... are are few play ideas that I've explored with clients who are not local to me. Sessions are carried out via some kind of video link up or telephone.

SENSATION SESSION

This type of session is for those who want to experience different types of touch. Many of us go through our lives touch starved. Our bodies rarely having the opportunity to explore what things 'feel' like on our skin and bodies, and therefore we are unsure as to how our bodies and nervous systems react to different types of sensations and CONSENSUAL touch. This is a good type of session for those who don't generally like to be touched or for those wanting to explore being in a state of 'surrender' but who are not wanting to be on the receiving end of anything 'painful'.

'OTHER'

I have been in the lifestyle since 2011 and have explored many different types of play. I've worn many different hats, many of which still hang in my closet waiting to be worn on the odd occasion if an opportunity presents itself. With that in mind I'm open to negotiating various 'dungeon' scenes with folks who understand that this is my work and therefore I expect my time to be reimbursed and that I am IN NO WAY looking for a personal play partner. Please bear in mind I don't have a dungeon per se, I have a spanking bench, a St Andrew's Cross and extensive collection of impact tools and sensation play toys. Please feel free to get in touch with me if you have an idea in mind. The worst thing I could say is "I don't think that's something I'm wanting to do." Please note that I am not at all knowledgeable of rope play. FYI Tailor made sessions range from $150-300+ per session.