Spanking as Therapy
Lily Morley, Lethbridge, Alberta
Hello!
What a funny bunch of people us humans are! We are constantly searching out opportunities to (1) enjoy life, (2) how to improve our lives and (3) to provide clarity. We eat tasty food, we drink and smoke, we use prescribed drugs, or illegal drugs, we pray or play the violin, we climb rocks and mountains, we bungee jump for the adrenaline high, we listen to self help tapes, we spend time learning at the University of YouTube, we garden, we join a group or class, we seek solace, we enjoy and benefit from 'up' and 'down' time. Some of us enjoy and improve our lives by getting an occasional or regular spanking.
For me the physical experience of being spanked, of letting go physically and mentally is like pressing my 'reset' button. Afterwards I feel cleansed, grounded and 'corrected'. I have clarity for a time. Emotionally, I have a clean slate and I feel back to normal. This is my therapy. It works for me.
Non-sexual spanking, in mine and many other spankos' opinions, is similar to getting a massage, albeit a whole lot harder and rather more focused in one area! Massages and other types of bodywork all affect the person physically, mentally and emotionally in slightly different ways. In 2015, I started wondering if there was a connection between spanking and impact play in general and the person's chakras, in particular the Root, Sacral and Heart Chakras. This idea has been strengthened in my eyes in recent years. But don't think that someone wanting to book a session with me has to believe in 'any of that'. Don't let my thoughts about spanking and chakras put you off the idea of going over my knee. You don't have to understand why something works for it to work for you.
I GET IT. I know what it feels like to be 'overdue' a spanking'. I currently do not have anyone in my life who spanks me. I need someone like me in my life! It's like an itch that needs scratching and there really isn't much that can help that itch except a spanking.
I have been spanking bottoms in professional sessions since 2011. This is a very important part of my life. It gives me great joy to be able to help people with this very specific need. My clients come from all walks of life. Their different backgrounds and life stories mean their exposure and/or experiences with spanking are all unique. They range in age from 21 to 70+.
Spanking sessions with me are 100% NON-SEXUAL. I do not appreciate connecting the the types of spankings I offer with sex because for me it has nothing to do with it. Please note that I do NOT offer erotic or role play sessions. They do not interest me.
My clients come to me in a state of need, of curiosity, of vulnerability. I provide them with a safe place to have their spanking and discipline needs met. The act of spanking and the giving and receiving of discipline is like any kind of bodywork, is somewhat of an intimate act and it is important that both parties feel at ease in each other's company.
For some clients the sessions are fun in nature, we chat and talk like any other 'appointment' or 'treatment' butt for others it is serious, a time for them to focus solely on the reason for their spanking or other kind of discipline. I'm comfortable in any setting.
NOT A THERAPIST
It is important for anyone who is reading my website and who knows me personally to know that I do not consider myself to be spanking therapist. I have had zero education or training to be a therapist of any kind. I am merely an extremely open-minded and non-judgmental woman who has been trusted to spank hundreds of bottoms over the years. It is up to the person getting the spanking, the 'bottom', to decide whether or not getting a spanking is therapy for them.
Over the years I have developed many wonderful professional relationships, 'Service Provider & Client relationships, with many of my clients. My role in their lives becomes important to them and I'm usually the only person who is aware of their need to be spanked or disciplined. I am honoured to be held in such trust. I look forward to our time together and can only presume they do too... well, they keep coming back!
Please email me with a little about yourself and what you are looking for as far as spanking or discipline is concerned and we shall take it from there!
Spankfully Yours,
Lily